Is It True….Men ain’t Sh**?

Alright men, settle down. Some of you may be a little upset by the title(if I have any that read my posts) but, I promise this post isn’t something that’s just completely slandering every man in existence. It’s quite the opposite. I can’t guarantee though that some egos might not get a little hurt for […]

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The Importance Of Self Discovery

I just want to talk real quick about self discovery. It’s something that’s important because I think finding or discovering yourself can help you get through life. Self discovery can help you answer questions like “what’s my favorite meal?” “What do I want to be in life?” “What’s my sexual orientation?” “Are these the type […]

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Black Woman Against Black Woman…Why Do We Do It?

Ok, so tell me…what’s the difference between these two women below? Besides them, of course, both being their own person. I just see two successful women, yet the media likes to pin women again women. Even BET had made a very rude tweet stating that Cardi B’s Grammy win had Nicki Minaj dragged by her […]

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Valentine’s Day Is Tomorrow….So What??

Happy early Valentine’s Day! A little confused I said that because you saw my title? Believe it or not, I’m not actually a vday grouch. I think the aesthetic of Valentine’s day is so cute. I mean I do love the idea. I always looked forward to my mom giving me a little basket when […]

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Let’s Talk About It: Self Pleasure

“Is she talking about pleasuring herself!? That’s so taboo!” Now that that’s out of the way, Valentine’s day is coming up, and that typically means guys getting their girls something for this oh so special day and showering them with the finer things in life. Girls that don’t have a valentine typically ending up trying […]

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Being Motivationless In A World Of Motivation

I kind of wanted to hit on the subject of not having enough motivation despite all the motivation that’s around you. This is a topic that’s not only been something that I’ve struggled with, but something I’m still struggling with currently. It took me time to figure out what I really wanted to talk about, […]

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Working As An Introvert

Raise your hand if you’re an introvert like me! I am a total introvert, so when I started working, the thought of all the personalities I’m going to have to meet and interact with (including co-workers) just kind of made me cringe a bit. This is probably why soon, I need to get a job […]

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Let’s Talk About It: Protect Our Black Girls!

**TRIGGER WARNING: I will be mentioning pedophilia so please be warned if you’re triggered by this topic*** Hooneeyy! Get your hot tea, coffee, apple cider…all of that because this topic is a very big one and very much so a big topic right now. Alright, so if you’re at all aware of the news, especially […]

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Grinding: Is It For Everyone?

Grinding (slang): The act of putting in work; The act of working hard towards a goal or achievement. (urban dictionary) A lot of people may be familiar with this term grinding. There are many different definitions for the word, but I mean the one I defined above. The term that people use when it comes […]

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Thank You, Next.

Sometimes people can make you feel like you can’t breathe. Their presence is just suffocating you so bad. Sometimes they just give you a bad headache, but you still let them come back anyway. And sometimes, you really want to see the good in someone and you try your best to keep it working but […]

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