Why It’s Hard To Accomplish My Goals

I’m not a stranger to making monthly goals just like many other bloggers in the community. However, I’m not the best at succeeding at these goals. If you take a look at my past monthly updates, you’d see a pattern. This pattern includes me going through the goals that I have accomplished and then seeing […]

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Know Who Your Real Friends Are!

In this day and age, knowing who your real friends are is very vital. It’s just sad that one young woman had to find out in the worst way possible that the girl she thought was a real friend, wasn’t a friend at all. And yes, I’m talking about Alexis Crawford. If you haven’t heard […]

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Why Social Media Annoys Me

I know I can’t be the only one who gets annoyed by social media. It’s pretty easy to get annoyed by it when you’re on it so often trying to make a career out of something that’s based on it. Below I’m going to give a few of my reasons exactly why social media tends […]

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Help…I Can’t Stick To A Niche!

Or maybe I just don’t want to. A  lot of times you see advice in the blogosphere that you should be sticking to maybe 1-3 niches. I just made up those numbers based on what I’ve seen. For example: some people are strictly book bloggers, some are lifestyle and beauty, some may be lifestyle, beauty, […]

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A Month Of Awareness.

*trigger warning: pregnancy loss, domestic violence, breast cancer* October is a month full of awareness. Last year I specifically wrote a breast cancer awareness post once a week. You can search for those posts and have a read if you’d like. This year, I found out that it wasn’t just Breast Cancer Awareness Month, but […]

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Let’s Talk About It: Protect Our Black Children!

It’s sad to see that I’m making another post in the same year. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, I made a post called Protect Our Black Girls at the beginning of this year. To sum it up, I discussed the R. Kelly documentary and everything he’s been doing to those young black […]

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He Said What!?

Calling all my ladies! This one is specifically for you!  Have you ever been on your social media, minding your own business, and saw you had a DM from someone? You go to look and it’s from a guy. Before even looking at the message, you already assume it might be some bull. You want […]

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Plus-Sized People Fetishized During Fall?

Alright, let’s talk about the plus size community for a moment and the obsession with us. I use the term us because it’s no secret that I’m part of this community. Before I get to what the title is about, I just want to discuss for a moment the obsession with the community since it […]

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How My Blog Has Changed My Life

Blogging is something that wasn’t planned in the slightest. I didn’t go to college for journalism. I never had a dream of becoming a writer or anything of the sort minus the poetry I decided to start writing in high school, but still, I never thought of writing a book like I am now. Yet, […]

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How To Pursue Your Ambition In Life!

Ambition: noun //A strong desire to do or to achieve something, typically requiring determination and hard work. I believe everyone has an ambition of some sort. It doesn’t matter what it is, there’s SOMETHING that you’re ambitious about. The problem is, though, is that some don’t know how to pursue that ambition or maybe they’re […]

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